I know, sometimes communicating between girlfriend and boyfriend are hard especially if there is a distance in between. Common sense, we don't see each other face expression and of course we don't even know what actually there are doing there.
This is the experience I have between Kapo Mami, and Kapo Papa.
One day, Kapo Mami is very busy and I can't even see how stress and how busy she was, and the truth is, she is really extremely busy. But Kapo papa are just too stupid that he didn't evaluate properly the actual scent of Kapo Mami. She had to take bus all the way back from work, she had to wash dishes, she had financial difficulties that lead to a "half-permenant stress", she had to report to her boss every night even after back from job which is around 11pm. But Kapo papa are just stupid enough to think that all kapo mami have to do is, come back from job, have a nice meal, have a nice bath, dry her hair, and then sit down to freely to spend time with kapo papa. Hey!!! you ever realise she have to wash dish?? she's a girl and she have to do mask?? she have financial difficulties and mask cost her golden hard earn money?? she have to send report to her boss??
Oh, that is too much for her....soon, kapo mami cannot withstand this kind of nightmare anymore. She is so numb to her environment, which cause by all the stupid stresses.
Boys out there, please, when girl friend is stress, just step back a bit, and just see what they need ,give it to the fullest if they ask for, if not, an inch behind is better. If not, do not try to offer any!!!! You know, guys... we tend to have mistake easily and we don't even know we are.
I learned my lesson here. Guys, be strong and understand the girls. And girls, don't worry too much, if your boy say "I love you". you know it is true from deep down his heart. He wont give up no matter what and how it is.
At here, I want to use this chance to say sorry to my dear Pauline. I did a "good" job to ruin your mask, ruin your mood, and of course your night. Its good that we learn and see how communicating is so challenging.
I love you, Kapo family.
