Thursday, August 12, 2010
Love.Friends
《和我喜欢的蓝玫瑰合照,谢谢那位Gentleman》
Usually i don't have the habit to read those chinese long passage written about love, life, friendship and etc.
BUT~
after my first heart breaking experience, i have learned to pick up the habit to read more passage regards of all these love and relationship thingy.
『probably also due to a friend~sharon yoong influence, because she give me many valuable advises during my break up and had make me realise alot of things from reading all these notes..』
Here is a small part i've extracted from the looong~ passage...that had touched me personally. It goes like this...
有一天,友情和愛情碰見。
愛情問友情︰世上有我了,為什麼還要有你的存在?
友情笑著說︰愛情會讓人們流淚,而友情的存在就是幫人們擦干眼淚﹗
朋友就是︰偶爾會為你擔心、向你關心、替你 心、想你開心、逗你開心、請你放心。
朋友之間,懂得關懷才是難得.....
傷心時不妨和我說;
痛苦時別忘了跟我講;
有病時別忘了通知我;
困難時記得要請教我;
失望時要想起還有我;
開心時更不要忘記我。
Another passage about love had speak right into my heart too...
伴侶不是結婚時發願非你不娶或非你不嫁的那個人,而是發現你身上有許多缺點仍然選擇你的那個人。
This verse, had told me that i am suppose to be where i am now. Because we are still not mature enough.
After this heart breaker, at least i know there is 1 thing i confirmed learned...
Once decided to commit to a relationship, be mature..in thinking & action.
At this point of time, i had fail and fall very badly..but now i learned..hope in the futue i will grow from my mistake.